"Just because you love someone doesn’t mean you have to be involved with them. Love is not a bandage to cover wounds." -- Hugh Elliott
"This thing that we call 'failure' is not the falling down, but the staying down." -- Mary Pickford (1893 - 1979)
"Science may set limits to knowledge, but should not set limits to imagination." -- Bertrand Russell (1872 - 1970)
What is Maturity? from Courage to Change: One Day At a Time in Al-Anon, page 63
Knowing myself.
Asking for help when I need it and acting on my own when I don't.
Admitting when I'm wrong and making amends.
Accepting love from others, even if I'm having a tough time loving myself.
Recognizing that I always have choices, and taking responsibility for the ones I make.
Seeing that life is a blessing.
Having an opinion without insisting that others share it.
Forgiving myself and others.
Recognizing my shortcomings and my strengths.
Having the courage to live one day at a time.
Acknowledging that my needs are my responsibility.
Caring for people without having to take care of them.
Accepting that I'll never be finished -- I'll always be a work-in-progress.
owww...does this mean i have maturity? huh?! whatever made me think so... napaisip pa tuloy ako.
errhmmm.. that's nice.. i would be too mayabang if i say all of that applies to me right? hahahaha happy new year val! i'm going home tomorrow, yipee!!
ReplyDeleteoriginally posted on 12.31.04 - 2:43 pm using Haloscan comment board
aRiaNe, hehehe, i know what you mean. not everything applies to me, too. hahaha. happy new year, and welcome home!
ReplyDeleteoriginally posted on 12.31.04 - 7:04 pm using Haloscan comment board